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Victims of domestic violence have a range of issues which are not
unusual for parties going through family breakups - divorce, support,
custody, and the like - but their approach to them is completely
different. Because of the complicated patterns into which abuse victims
weave their lives in order to survive, sometimes the simplest step can
seem impossible. For many of these victims, the simple act of filing a
petition may endanger their lives. Many abusers threaten to harm the
mother or take the children if she asks for anything.
Often these victims leave their homes in a desperate escape, taking
with them only what they have at hand, or what they have been careful
enough to spirit out of the house beforehand. They've been told for years
that they are worthless, that they cannot take care of themselves, that
they are whores, sluts and worse. They have watched their children learn
from some of the worst role models in our society. Yet they may still have
a hidden hope that they can step out the door to make their way in a new
world.
The text is a step-by-step guided tour of the issues they are likely to
confront, and answers to help them through the legal and social services
systems, immigration, housing, job-seeking, and eventually recovery.
Some useful sites for people seeking information on domestic violence
are
Women's Rural Advocacy
Programs,National Coalition Against
Domestic Violence and The Health
Gazette. With any luck and a little cash, this book may be available
in your local bookstore soon!
It’s always great to hook up with other writers to share notes,
critiques and collaborate sometimes. I’ve joined Pennwriters, Inc., which
is a group for writers who live in Pennsylvania of many genres. You may
consider Writing.Com as a place to
visit; it's a terrific resource for writers looking for a sense of
community on the net.
Thanks to all those dear friends and relatives who have read and reread
my work, giving me good feedback so I can send the very best work to
publishers. My work would not be what it has become without the support and
assistance of my brothers and sisters at the Erie Wednesday night Pennwriters'
critique group. They are a wonderfully-talented bunch who write in a number
of formats, and I like to think we spur each other to better and better work.
A special kudos to my sister, Dianna Allen, who is a great
freelance editor, for her painstaking reviews of Shine, Sweet Freedom and
Voodoo Dreams. She is now out of graduate school but if you’d be interested in
hiring her, you could reach her here.
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